What does Proverbs 6:20 mean?
My child, hold on to your father’s instruction, and don’t ignore what your mother teaches you. Proverbs 6:20 - Modern Text Bible
(This verse urges you to value and remember the wisdom and guidance your parents give you.)
Holding onto the wisdom and guidance passed down by your parents can shape your life in powerful ways. The verse urges you to "keep your father's command" and "not abandon your mother's teaching." The Hebrew word for "command" is mitzvah, which means a directive or instruction meant for your good. "Teaching" is torah, meaning guidance, instruction, or law—something that points the way forward.
Modern culture often pushes for independence and figuring things out on your own, sometimes at the expense of listening to those who care about you. This verse challenges that impulse, suggesting that the wisdom of those who have gone before you is worth more than you might think.
Even if your relationship with your parents is complicated, the principle still holds: people who care about you and want the best for you often have insights you can't see yet. If you're facing a tough decision or feeling lost, consider the advice and values you were taught—not as rules to box you in, but as a foundation to build on. Sometimes, the guidance you need is already there, waiting for you to remember it.
Similar verses: Proverbs 1:8, Ephesians 6:1, Deuteronomy 6:6