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What does Proverbs 5:9 mean?

If you don’t, you’ll end up giving your best years to strangers, and your strength to people who don’t care about you. Proverbs 5:9 - Modern Text Bible

(He warns that giving in will cost you your vitality and the best parts of your life, wasted on those who don’t value you.)

Giving in to temptation can drain your energy and waste the best parts of your life on people who don’t care about you. The Hebrew word for "strength" is hod, meaning splendor, honor, or vitality — it’s about the best of what you have to offer. This verse pushes back on the idea that your choices don’t really matter in the long run. It’s a warning that what you give away now — your time, your focus, your reputation — can’t always be recovered later. In a world that says "you only live once" or "no regrets," this is a sobering reminder that some things, once lost, are gone for good. If you’ve ever felt like you poured yourself out for someone or something that left you empty, this verse understands that feeling. It’s a call to value yourself and your future, not just the thrill of the moment.