What does Proverbs 30:11 mean?
Some people curse their own parents and never thank them for anything. Proverbs 30:11 - Modern Text Bible
(This verse points out a kind of person who’s ungrateful and disrespectful to their family.)
Some people reject their parents and show no gratitude for what they’ve received. This verse describes a generation that curses its father and doesn’t bless its mother. The Hebrew word for "curse" is qalal, meaning to treat lightly, insult, or show contempt. In ancient culture, family respect was a core value, so this was a shocking accusation. Today, it still pushes back against the idea that independence means cutting ties or showing disdain for where you came from. If you’ve ever struggled with family relationships, or felt the urge to distance yourself from your parents, this verse names the tension. It’s not about blind obedience, but about recognizing the value of gratitude and respect, even when things are complicated. Treating people who raised you with basic honor isn’t just a cultural rule—it’s a way to stay connected to your own story, and to build healthier relationships going forward.
Similar verses: Exodus 20:12, Matthew 15:4, Ephesians 6:2