Two years go by after Tamar’s assault before Absalom makes a move. He invites the king’s sons to a sheep-shearing party — a big celebration in ancient Israel. The Hebrew word for sheep-shearing is gezaz, which means to cut or shear, but it also hints at a time of festivity and abundance. Absalom uses this joyful occasion to set his plan in motion.

This verse pushes against the idea that time heals all wounds. For Absalom, time only deepens his resolve. The outward celebration is a cover for his inner pain and plotting. It’s a reminder that people can hide their true motives behind smiles and parties.

If you’ve ever seen someone act fine on the outside while carrying hurt inside, this verse rings true. Waiting doesn’t always mean forgetting. Sometimes, it means someone is just waiting for the right moment to act on what’s been eating at them.